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10 TIPS ON SURVIVING A BUCKS DO
BY ELITESTRIPPERS | CREATED ON MAY 7, 2017
SURVIVING A BUCKS, WELL THAT'S EASY ISN'T IT; PARACETAMOL, TOOTHBRUSH AND A SPARE PAIR OF PANTS... WHAT ELSE DO YOU NEED?
OK, OK, it isn't the 1970s, we have become a little more civilized, haven't we?
There are a few fast rules and pointers everyone can take on board whilst arranging, attending and coming back off a bucks.
THESE ARE 10 SURVIVAL TIPS FOR ALL BEST MEN AND BUCKS DO ORGANIZERS OUT THERE:
Survival Tip: 1
When arranging a Bucks do, firstly I recommend you use a company who can take all the stress and strain out of the process that also has an upstanding reputation.
For example Elite Strippers; not only can they arrange all the venues, activities etc. we also have a website where you can view a huge selection of performers & shows
Survival Tip 2
Don't book anything the future bride may have an issue with, if you do decide there are a few things on the Bucks do that she might give you or the Bucks grief, keep these, "let’s call them activities" on a need to know basis, you don't even need to tell the Bucks, and possibly, you won't anyway.
Which activities will the bride not like? Well Lap Dancing or Strippers to start off with, Elite Strippers have an activity called Bucks arrest, she may have a Fit about this activity!
Even dangerous activities such as sky diving or bungee jumping, it really depends on how nervous she is about her future husband going on a Bucks do.
Survival Tip 3
If you are booking the Bucks do, do not pay for anyone who you don't know or trust, being out of pocket to show your allegiance to your best mate shows stupidity not how much you love him.
Survival Tip 4
Use social media (private pages) to get the message across, set up a private group or anything you can to share instructions, directions, itineraries etc. The more information you can get to the guys before you go the better, you don't want them turning up at a Meriton on Hamilton Ave when it's at the Meriton on Adelaide St!
Survival Tip 5
When you checked into your hotel (especially when abroad), take a hotel card, that way when you're worst for wear and you want to get back to your bed, get in a taxi, and show him the card.
Survival Tip 6
Organise a Bucks kitty as soon as the group is together, that way you'll eliminate any round issues, i.e. people moaning because tight John Doe hasn't put his hand in his pocket all weekend.
Survival Tip 7
Don't let the boy’s peak to soon, so book an activity to keep them out the pubs. I have been on Bucks with and without daytime activities and even though the ones without activities are good fun, most of the group fell apart by 7pm, leaving the Bucks an uneventful night. So book an activity for the daytime and drinkies for the night time, it makes sense.
Survival Tip 8
Most Bucks parties hit the town or city centre on every night they are away. Now just imagine door security watching your group of 15 lads turn up at their premises, most won't let you in. This is why it is imperative that you pre book tickets into nightclubs and bars.
You don't want to be all dressed up and nowhere to go.
Survival Tip 9
Talking of getting all dressed up, if you intend to get into fancy dress make sure the venues you are booked in to (as you listened to my Survival Tip 8) allow fancy dress. You don't want to be spending your hard earned cash on a fancy dress outfit you have to change out of at the beginning of the night.
Survival Tip 10
What goes on tour, stays on tour, simple.
Good luck and be safe out there and remember the buck is getting photos taken at the wedding so nothing permanent.
SHOULD THE GROOM PAY FOR HIS OWN BUCKS PARTY?
BY ELITESTRIPPERS | CREATED ON AUGUST 15, 2017
THE ONE STAND OUT QUESTION POSSIBLY POPS UP IN MOST BEST MEN`S MINDS AS SOON AS THEY HAVE BEEN OFFERED THE JOB, "SHOULD THE GROOM PAY FOR HIS OWN BUCKS NIGHT "?
Most would split the total coast across the group or even as the best man shoulder the cost.
This would mean the group paying a little extra, say $20 – $90 depending on the group size and the total cost.
There are many arguments whether he should or should not pay for his own Bucks do, such as:
He should not pay for his own Bucks, because;
As best man, I should do my best to look after him
He is paying for the wedding, he has enough to pay for
You and most of the Wolfpack are invited to the wedding, this is a good way of showing gratitude
He should pay for his own Bucks weekend because;
I paid for my own Bucks do
I am paying to go on his bucks weekend and that's costing me enough so why should I have to pay for part of his?
The groom is well off, why should I have to pay for him.
The above bullet points are just some of the reasons why you should or shouldn't pay for the Groom's Bucks, however, it is a personal circumstances situation for the best man to take on board not only for himself but for the whole group.
If the guys who are invited are all well paid and are comfortable in life, then treat the groom and make life a little easier for him especially when he is fighting with wedding costs and a bridezilla!!
If you, the best man, want to show the groom your appreciation for being honed as the best man, then paying for his Bucks do is a good way of showing him.
If the groom is up to his limit paying for the wedding and may not be able to pay for his own Bucks place then the boys should step up.
However, if this sBucks is fairly expensive and some group members are struggling with the price, then adding a bit more on will not help and you may find people dropping out.
So you really need to look at the wolfpack and the cost of the Bucks weekend and then weigh up everyone's situation and decide whether or not to pay for the groom's share of the bucks.
Being a best man really isn't a walk in the park after all, you will need to make some tough decisions, good luck.
WHAT ARE YOUR THOUGHTS?
Yes, Ether the wolfpack will chip in for the buck or I will as the bestman.
No, He can pay his own way,
HEN’S PARTY IDEAS FOR BRIDES TO BE IN BRISBANE
BY ELITESTRIPPERS | CREATED ON MAY 24, 2017
It doesn’t matter if you’re into feather boas and novelty straws or prefer to keep things classy. If you’ve recently put a ring on it and you’re looking for ideas to celebrate with the girls, these hen’s party ideas will make it a day or night you’ll never forget!
THE CLASSY HEN
Pamper party
If it’s a little girly relaxation you’re after or the more decadent four-hour day spa experience organize a day spa and have you and your other hens flying on cloud nine together!
Sweet Scentsation
head to a perfume masterclasses. You’ll learn about fragrances from all over the world and spritz and spray to find your perfect scent out as you sip champagne (French, of course).
THE ACTIVE HEN
Bridal cook off many spots around Brisbane offer cooking classes in so many different cuisines and themes, like Thai, Vietnamese, pizza and pasta, gluten free and even French Decadence. Get the party started with some hands-on learning before enjoying the fruits of your labour (with accompanying celebratory bubbles, of course)!
Pole party If there’s one thing you’ve gotta try before you say goodbye to singledom forever, it’s pole dancing. Hey, we’re not saying hubby-to-be won’t benefit from it as well. Brisbane has a few studios you can choose from and you can structure the class how you like. Generally, you will be taught a routine, play some fun games and watch one of the pros in action.
Just hanging out Your bride to be is about to take the biggest plunge of her life so why not warm her up and overcome any fears with a session of abseiling down the Kangaroo Point cliffs?
THE PARTY-LOVING HEN
Sexy sketch Drink champagne, eat yummy food and flex your drawing muscles with some of the hottest men you’ll ever see naked! Life Drawing is tasteful enough for grandma to get involved,
Fire engine red hot Who doesn’t want a ride in a fire engine? Samantha from Sex and The City would be so in on this night out! The Hire Engine is a chauffeur-driven fire engine, providing you with an Esky so you can BYO drinks, crank your favourite tunes and cruise around the river city for your time booked. Oh yeah and did we mention that the two drivers are dressed as firemen. Holy. Smokes. Batman.
WHAT’S THE BEST HEN’S PARTY YOU’VE BEEN TO IN BRISBANE?
WHAT TO DO WHEN YOUR BLOKE GOES TO A BUCKS PARTY...
BY ELITESTRIPPERS | CREATED ON MAY 10, 2017
TELL US THE RULES BEFORE WE LEAVE, PLEASE.
"We want to have a few beers and laugh."
"See you later, Honey, I'm off to that bucks weekend with the boys."
IS THERE A MORE ANXIETY PROVOKING STATEMENT WE GUYS CAN SAY TO OUR PARTNERS?
Bucks parties are often events with an abundance of peer pressure, social lubrication and professional entertainers, so it's totally understandable why the mind might start racing.
Even if you think a bucks day is an outdated tradition or a disgusting and degrading waste of time and money, the reality is we go for our mate to show him our support before his big day.
Having said that, there's a few things that couples should consider to ensure they're still feeling the love when the wedding rolls around.
Be Upfront Before We Go And Discuss The Ground Rules
I'm not advocating having heaps of rules, but if there are a few things you'd like to clarify, do it before we leave. Having a few rules is okay but they're useless if we don't know about them in advance.
Whether it's no touching, no guns, or no dark spirts if you're a rowdy Queenslander, work out some limits that you're both comfortable with. There's nothing more frustrating than being told, "do whatever, I don't care" only to get in trouble when we arrive back home.
Guys Want To Laugh Together, Not Get Aroused Together
Puppetry of the Penis is a show with naked guys but it's not about sex, it's a comedy show. It's the same for us guys. It's actually quite awkward getting turned on with your best mates around and it's honestly not the desired result. We want to have a few beers and laugh.
FACT: THERE'S NOTHING SEXY ABOUT A PING PONG BALL.
If You Trust Us, Then Trust Us.
If you feel like you can't trust us at a bucks night, it feels like you can't trust us at all and assumptions and accusations will only push us further away.
I understand a lot of women have untrustworthy exes who've treated them wrong. And that sucks. But just because your ex let you down doesn't mean we will as well.
When We Get Home, Don't Question Everything
Has any couple ever done the deed and maintained perfect eye contact the entire time?
No! But I've actually heard numerous stories of guys looking away for just a moment during sex, only to have to answer accusations like: "You're thinking about one of those girls aren't you?!" True story.
Do Something Yourself On The Same Night
A lot of hens have their 'do' on the same night as the bucks, which is ideal.
If that's not possible, maybe head to the movies, try out that new restaurant or just hang out with friends. Do not sit at home by yourself.
A good distraction will keep your mind busy and minimise your ability to think about all the what-ifs. While we still love you, we really don't want to be that guy texting his girlfriend for the entire boys night.
The bucks day is also about breaking the ice. Instead of sheepishly turning up to a wedding where you don't know anyone, you've already met the bride's second cousin or that legend from the groom's office.
It's not just about the wedding day anymore. From the proposal, the engagement party, the fittings, the night before drinks and day after breakfast, matrimony is a whole journey -- bucks day included.
It's the best time of the couple's lives, so try support it and enjoy it as best you can!
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